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Relationship Counselling
Relationship Conflicts
In most cases, Conflict can arise from even the smallest of disagreements.
It can be in the form of an argument, criticisms. Although, conflicts are a normal part of life. Sometimes arguments are no easy thing to navigate, especially when a person doesn’t know how to respond appropriately or assertively.
Discussions or disagreements are important in a relationship, eventually, they will come toa point where one or both will decide to reach an agreement and then resolve the issue.
In a dysfunctional relationship, these conflicts will drag on and escalate. There won’t be any logic or reasoning involved, and the dysfunctional partner or family will often be emotionally driven. This can be a stressful way of life
But in the majority of relationships, because of the high emotional attachment, whether is a couple or family relationships might stay around in the hope that things will improve.
The sad truth is that unless action is taken and help is sought, the problems and conflict won’t get better on their own.
Forgiveness, understanding, and communication are needed to deal with conflict, and unfortunately, a dysfunctional partner might not know how to behave in those ways.
In a dysfunctional relationship, arguments seem to go on forever.
And, they tend to get repeated.
It’s one of life’s most annoying and frustrating, to go through the same issue continuously.
But there’s a reason for these repeated fallouts.
The roots of the problems aren’t being resolved.
And instead of being sorted out healthily, they usually get ignored until the next time they get triggered.
Not only is it a sign of not having clear communication, but also that maybe one or both partners don’t want to resolve the problem, or they don’t know how to resolve it.
Maybe they take pleasure in the attention of an argument, or they keep it going as a way to keep blaming you.
Often the biggest problem is the inability to let go of resentment, and a tendency to keep the past alive.
Whatever the reason, it’s not healthy and eventually, you might feel like it’s pointless even trying to reason with them.
When this happens, it can lead to a complete breakdown in communication. And without communication, there’s not much hope left.
If this sounds familiar it is important to explore the reasons why you are trap in that type of relationship, which often are unconscious patterns that keep you conditioned to attract toxic relationships and destructive behaviours.
Human beings are created from a relationship, born into a relationship, conflict is a normal part of humanity. Learning the art of conflict resolutions is a lifelong journey which can also facilitate personal growth.
If you believe that you deserve a better quality of life and are ready to do the work, I would be an honour to support you in transforming your life.